Cranky Jennie ;-p

My family is infamous (at least in our own minds) for its philosophical conversations.  Everything and anything is fair game.  For example,  on the dark side, we may ask each other, “Do you think you could stab someone to death” or if you like lighter fare, “What is the meaning of life?”.

One of the biggest debates has been about fate.  My brother is a committed fatalist.  He believes that our course is already charted and we’re going to die the way it’s been “written”.  His biggest argument for fate is 9/11.  I agree with him on that tragic, devastating event, but I do believe we have some choices in life!

Today, one of my classmates started a debate about the ability to learn.  He believes anyone can learn anything, if taught correctly.  I wholeheartedly disagreed!  I honestly don’t believe someone with a below-average IQ can understand and apply the theories of quantum physics if given the time and taught correctly.  I’m sorry, but I just can’t support the idea that we all have the capacity to learn everything and anything.  This discussion prompted this post, in case you were wondering.

Yesterday, my mother asked me two question:  Who has disappointed you most in your life and What non-family member has inspired you?  I came up with the first one quite easily, but the second one was much harder.  I partially blame myself for the first because I repeatedly subjected myself to this person in the misguide hope that s/he would change. NOT!

I’m still thinking about the second one.  I’ve had people that I have admired for one trait or another, but I’m not sure there was one person who really “inspired” me besides my parents.  Of course, I think this admission highlights who my parents are (at least in my mind).

Here’s another question:  what event or events have altered the path of your life?  Did something happen that made you change course?  I think Oprah called these “definable moments” or something like that.  I have had a few that I can name off the bat.

The fun in asking philosophical questions is you really learn what makes another person “tick”.  You find out what is important and/or of value to them.

It’s definitely a better way to spend your time than playing mindless video games or staring blankly at the television!

What makes you tick?